Patterns in the Void 0.5

I see following patterns around me. This does not mean I am labeling or stereotyping. Its just random observations as I, like alot of other people, try to make sense of the world around me and forgive me if its not always politically correct or adhering too close to the norm, or the accepted standards of thought.

Will to be good, to improve one's self : I see alot of people saying they continuously want to better themselves. Now there are different kinds of bettering one's self. A thief wants to better his technique and so does a monk. A salesperson wants to improve his pitch and so does the stranger who feels the infinite love in his heart for everyone and everything around him and just wants to connect to any one person that he can. We are all an amalgamation of desires and doubts no question about that. I wonder if there is a secret key, or a way of being that is better then the rest. One that makes it easier to find common ground with others who are also willing. A common ground that reduces feelings of tension and stress and unnecessary competition. A feeling where our everyday bartering selves - always weighing loss and gain, and for good reasons sometimes- can forget all that differentiates us and somehow hold on to that blissful way of being, of security and trust while in presence of another.